How to say ‘no’ without saying ‘no’ to the boss
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If you work for a Slave Driver, you’ve got to master the art of saying ‘no’ the boss…without saying ‘no.’ Here are a few tips, smoothie:

Let your boss know how much you care about getting the job done – and how much you value working “smart” – instead of just working “hard.” Try: “John, I’ve noticed how much extra time we put in on weekends and evenings to get the job done. Would you be open to having me come up with a few alternatives to how we can still complete our work in a shorter timeframe?”

Ask the boss to prioritize. Try: “Realistically, John, I just don’t know if I will be able to complete everything before the end of the week. What is the most important thing you’d like me to complete before I leave the office?”
Do you need more help? Try: “John, are there any plans in the works to hire anyone else for the team? I’ve noticed that we’re usually the only ones working weekends – maybe we could use an extra pair of hands.”

Appeal to his softer side. Try: “John, I realize how important this is to you, and believe me, I also want to get this done right. However, I usually spend my weekends with my family – would you be comfortable if I held off on this until Monday?”
Avoid saying the actual word, ‘no,’ even if it’s what you mean. Try: “John, I care about this job, and I’d like to work out a different arrangement with you if possible. Is there any reasons why this can’t wait until Monday?” Feeling brave? Try: “John, is there any pressing reason why this can’t wait until Monday so that I can keep my weekends free?”